Wednesday, May 4, 2011

How do you deal with someone who hates the mere sight of you?  One of my coworkers and I used to get along great.  I really liked her.  I made a mistake.  I tried to apologize for it.  I meant no harm by what happened, it was an innocent error on my part.  I tried that very day to make things right.  Then we didn't see each other for two (Christmas break) and I hoped when we returned things would be back to normal.  But they weren't.  She didn't say to my face I wasn't to talk to her but she did say under her breath as she walked by me that she didn't want me talking to her.  I have respected that.  However here it is over 4 months later and she continues to make passive aggressive moves around me.  I am so tense working around her and just am counting the days until I no longer have to.  But until then the tension headaches are getting worse and my heart is just hurting so much.  What can you do when you have tried to make amends and it does no good? =(